What is a Sugar Daddy? People can establish many types of relationships between us. More or less intimate, more or less formal, more or less liberal, more or less interested... In this article we are going to talk about a very special one: the one between a Sugar Daddy and a Sugar Baby .
To analyze this type of relationship and how it can develop, we are going to try to describe the characteristics of these two figures and, above all, we are going to see what role each of them plays in a SugarDating or "sugar relationship".
What is a Sugar Daddy?
Sugar daddies are mature men who establish a relationship with girls much younger than them and who do so by giving gifts, cash or other financial and material benefits.
A "sugar daddy" (this could be the literal translation of the Anglophone expression to which we are dedicating this text) is a successful and well-positioned man economically. So much, at least, as to be able to satisfy the whims or economic needs of a young girl (his "sugar daughter").
What whims can those be? Well, from paying university tuition to renting a flat, going through the purchase of a luxury accessory (a bag, a watch, some shoes, clothes...) or financing a trip.
Beyond that financial support, the young girl looking for a sugar daddy looks to her sweet parent for everything from knowledge ( Daddy is a kind of mentor) to a certain social status. A young girl, thanks to this type of relationship, can access to move in certain social circles that, in other circumstances, would be out of her reach.
In exchange for all that... what does Daddy receive? Basically company, intimacy, romance and, on many occasions, sex.
Not all "sugar daddies" pursue the same or enjoy the same purchasing power. There are some, for example, who lack sufficient financial capacity to provide regular support to the girl with whom they maintain this type of relationship. These gentlemen are called the Splenda Daddy .
For their part, those who fundamentally seek to have regular sexual relations with a girl much younger than them and within the limits of this type of relationship, are called Salt Daddies .
For many people, this type of ties between gentlemen and ladies is nothing but a form of prostitution. Those who deny it do so by arguing that in the relationship between a Sugar Daddy and a Sugar Girl , payments are not made for fractions of time.
Those who deny these relationships the qualification of prostitution also highlight a fundamental fact to do so: the relationships established between daddies and babies usually develop in the medium or long term, something unusual in the universe of paid sex.
Next we are going to see the different types of relationship that a Daddy and his sugar daughter can have.
Sugar Daddy and Sugar Baby: Relationship Types
Where is the limit in the relationship between these two figures? Where they want to put it. The bond established between a sugar daddy and his sugar daughter will be more or less intense depending on what they, with complete freedom, decide. So your relationship could be:
- friendly. The ludic acquires a great importance here. Also essential in the establishment of this type of ties is the mutual support of a moral nature that the sugar daddy and the sugar daddy lend each other.
- Without obligation. The established interpersonal bond does not force anything in this case. To begin with, future plans are not made (and cannot be made), since making them would imply establishing a commitment between the two parties that has no place here.
- Informal. Similar to the "relationship without commitment", the discontinuity of dating is here linked to the fact that neither of the two parties involved in the relationship need more of the other. That is why more appointments are not sought or proposed: because you already have enough.
- open. The two parties maintain parallel relationships to the one they maintain with each other. These relationships can even be marital or "serious" dating.
- Exclusive. The commitment here is clear and total. The search for affection is also capital. Much more than a simple "roll" is sought.
- Would. This would be the maximum prototype of mutual implication. What is sought here? Share everything and at all times with the other as if you were leaving, as the popular expression says, "flesh and nail".
How to get a sugar daddy?
Girls who want to become Sugar Babies and get a sugar daddy to pamper and take care of them have it easy. They only have to go to the websites and applications that allow both parties to contact each other.
At an international level, the most popular Sugardating platforms are Seeking Arrangement (whose approximate translation would be "Looking for Agreement") and MissTravel.
What if we seek to be able to establish relationships like this in Spain? There are several options, but one of the most innovative is the one proposed by Zukery . This website, recently created, has strict access controls to be a member and operates in Madrid and Barcelona.
In zukery.com , the subscribers are the "sugar girls" such as the sugar girls in Barcelona that are shown in this link. Users, for their part, can contact them without having to create any profile.
The website clearly specifies the rules that each of the parties must comply with. Complying with these rules is a mandatory requirement so that we can talk about Sugardating and not about any other type of relationship between adults.
Anyone wondering how to find a Sugar Daddy in Spain can also go to Mysugaerdaddy or SugarDaters . This second platform, of Danish origin, also offers the possibility of contacting "sugar moms", that is, with mature women who receive "love" from young boys whom they compensate financially.
